NO.

NO.

My dignity, my intelligence,my self-confidence, my self-consciousness, my respect, my knowledge; none of these resides in my vagina. Neither does my beauty. So why? Why am I asked if I'm virgin when someone's asks for my hand for marriage? Is it mandatory to leave red spots on first night to prove my character? Do you even ask same to your son? Whether he is a virgin or not? Do you take him for tests too? My hymens presence in no context symbolises my virginity. May be it broke when I was playing on the fields, may be it broke when I was carrying something heavy, or maybe when I was masturbating. "Masturbating?" "A girl and masturbating?" "Shameless." Why?? When a guy masturbates it's cool, when a girl does the same, she is shameless?

Girls don't have sexual desires for they are sex toys. This is what the mindset is, right? It hurts. It hurts when they forcefully enter me, when they insert iron rods within me. It hurts. It hurts and it bleeds but they don't feel the pain. They find it fun. They feel the ecstasy. They continue it. They use me for their leisure and then they are the ones calling girls slut, whore and what not. Like seriously? Why? Because I provoked them, I invited them for I wore clothes that I felt comfortable in. They grabbed me, pushed me, entered me. They were in numbers. I was single. Days later, they still be in numbers cursing me, I'll still be single. Was it my fault? Did I invite them to rape? I lost my virginity there, without my consent. Still they question me if I am a virgin or not?

I fell in love, I shared my virginity with the guy I loved and thought of spending my rest of the life with him. Using the term "lost" would be disrespectful for I agreed it too. We parted ways mutually, due to some differences. Now my parents are looking for a guy to get me married off and I met your son. He must have shared this same feeling with someone he loved. Do you even for once questioned him about his virginity? Like you do it to me. Judge me on the basis of my nature and achievement not in the basis of my virginity.

Sincerely,

Inner voice of every girl.